About the Author


Judy Gruen

Judy Gruen is the author of Bylines and BlessingsThe Skeptic and the Rabbi, and several other books. An award-winning columnist for the Jewish Journal, her work has also appeared in the Wall Street Journal, New York Daily News, Chicago Tribune, Jewish Action, and many other outlets. She is also a writing coach and book editor and writes the "Bylines and Blessings" newsletter on Substack. Read more of her work at judygruen.com.


I Rejected Jewish Observance—Then I Married a Man Who Embraced It

Dating my husband pushed me to challenge my views on Judaism and what it means to be a Jew.

When Loss and Celebration Collide

A mother's passing and a son's bar mitzvah create an emotional whirlwind when both run into each other.

Mother's Day Fantasy

Think precious metals, and remember: I already have a Dustbuster.

Fretting About Fressing

How to Cope with Yom Tov Eating.

Under Attack

I had contingency plans for many emergencies likely to strike during my absence. But tiny disgusting insects congealing to my children's heads was one I hadn't figured on.

The Plague of the School Science Fair

My son's favorite experiment was "Which Jokes Are Most Likely to Make My Brother Laugh so Hard at the Dinner Table that Water Spurts Out His Nose?"

Who 's That Kid In Enormous Shoes Calling Me Mommy?

The teen years are an age of contradictions -- for both mother and son.

Summertime Blues

How I am spending their summer vacation.

Back to School and Broke

Suddenly, at the end of August, kids not only need new wardrobes, but also a list of school supplies longer than the federal tax code.

Career, Interrupted

I have never second-guessed my decision to be a stay-at-home mother, but getting the head and heart to merge has been tough.

Grandpa's Little Girl

A dying father's words and blessings from the mikvah.

How Green Was My Checkbook

Saving my family money at the Big Food-A-Plenty warehouse store.

Remembering Dad

Living with Dad wasn't always easy, but it was easy to forgive him. He faced major professional disappointments and the most painful kind of personal tragedy. How could I judge him?

Post-Bar Mitzvah Stress Disorder

This malady follows a case of Pre-Bar Mitzvah Stress Disorder, characterized by bursting into tears with no warning because your little boy has the audacity to catapult into puberty before your very eyes.

Licensed to Thrill

It's astounding that kids in the throes of acne, who can't even remember to close a refrigerator door, are deemed responsible enough to drive.

Fly Away Home

There is no inoculation for parental separation anxiety.

Eat, Pray, Love, Connect

The Shabbat of Unity allowed me to get out of my own bubble and connect to Jews different than me.

Mrs. Princeton

On the strategic benefits of finding a husband at college.

A Candle for My Father

Thoughts on lighting the 20th yartzeit candle.

Attorney for Israel

Baruch Cohen knows the art of the fight.

Lauren’s Light

Honoring a vivacious life tragically cut short.

Renée Zellweger’s Unpopular New Face

Old is not ugly. Looking like a mask of your former self is ugly.

Christians United For Israel

Nearly 2.5 million Christian Americans are defending Israel. They call themselves part of the “goyim underground.”

My Lost Pendant

My chances of finding my special pendant in the enormous mall were about as good as my winning the Pulitzer Prize.

In Doggy Heaven: Farewell to My Faithful Friend

At the equivalent of 105 in human years, our dog’s time had come. I miss him.

These Biblical Women Are the Ultimate Mother and Daughter-in-Law

It’s not enough for Jews to consider themselves the “Chosen people;” we also need to be the choosing people.

The “Billy Graham” Rule and the Mississippi Governor’s Race

Is it sexist or sane policy to insist a third-party come along when a female reporter wants to interview a male candidate on the campaign trail?

Finding and Achieving Your Life’s Purpose

The day you were born is the day God declared that the world cannot exist without you.

Teenager’s Remarkable Diary of Life and Death in the Vilna Ghetto

Yitskhok Rudashevski’s stunning journal becomes an interactive, online museum exhibit.

A Pro-Palestine Mob Attacks My Los Angeles Neighborhood

Violent anti-Israel activists beat Jews outside of a shul and roam the Pico-Robertson neighborhood threatening Jews. The mayor and city leaders vow to make our community safer. Will they?

My Top 5 Pieces of Advice for Success

My lifelong dream to become a writer hasn’t made me rich or famous, but it has taught me invaluable lessons about building a career and a meaningful life.

Marriage Is Good For You

Research shows that stable marriages offer a proven path to happiness, intimacy and well-being.

The Magician Who Helped Defeat the Nazis

The battle against the Nazis relied on machinery, manpower, money, and even a bit of magic.

The Beauty Queens of Boro Park

Why a group of Holocaust survivors are asking, “Is this lipstick color good for me?”

10 Tips for Kinder Speech

How to improve the world and ourselves through channeling our power of speech for the good.

Why, God, Why?

A frank conversation about suffering with Gershon Schusterman, a rabbi who suddenly became a widower with 11 children at age 38.

The Nobel Prize-Winning Neuroscientist Mussolini Couldn’t Stop

Despite WWII-era fascist laws barring Jews from society, Rita Levi-Montalcini, a brilliant scientist, conducted pioneering experiments in her bedroom.

God, Grades & Graduation: Religion’s Surprising Impact on Academic Success

A new study conclusively shows multiple benefits of a faith-based life to working-class adolescents – particularly males.

Has Social Media Made Us Stupid?

An indictment of the “Wild West” atmosphere of social media and the price we all pay for it.

Bambi Was Jewish

A century after it was originally published, the authentic story of Bambi as a parable of antisemitism is coming to light.

Jewish Women Share Stories of Crisis, Healing, and Strength

New book from The Layers Project breaks taboos and stigmas.

Tik Tok Executive Discovers Joy and Purpose through Jewish Wisdom

Michal Oshman's new book asks, “What would you do if you weren’t afraid?”

New Documentary Explores the Question “Why Be Jewish?”

The first intermarriage in Becky Bordo's family launches her journey to explore her Jewish identity.

Shtisel Returns

The most famous Orthodox family on TV deals with intense new dramas, welcomes new family members, and grieves over losses.

Joan Rivers' Manager's Surprising Second Act

Dorothy Melvin's life was upended by a shocking phone call.

The Dark Spell of Social Media: A Review of The Social Dilemma

Former Big Tech insiders reveal what made them turn against the powerful platforms they helped create and promote.

It’s Just a Cold--Really

No, I didn’t say COVID, I said a COLD.

The LA Jewish Community Is Thanking Local Police and Increasing Community Safety

Public-private security coordination is the name of the game in today’s new reality. Bringing good food helps, too.

Mrs. Hollander’s Opus: An MS Sufferer’s Legacy of Optimism and Faith

Despite her degenerative and debilitating illness, Kaila Hollander’ remarkable joy inspired an entire community.

Rethinking “Achievement” in the Pandemic Era

Quarantine has reminded us that our lives are measured not so much by what we sell or build, but by what we give of ourselves to family, friends, and community.

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