The Jewish Answer to Anxiety: Give Up Control

Why You Make Bad Choices

Choosing life isn’t so obvious. Here’s a practical tool just in time for Rosh Hashanah.

Six Different Frameworks for Making Effective Resolutions

Here are six different ways to set your resolutions for Rosh Hashanah, so you can pick the one that fits you best.

Five Microchanges that Can Transform the New Year

These five small daily habits, each under a minute, matter more than any big resolution.

Sara Yoheved Rigler

Does God Love You? Judaism’s Surprising Answer

My Christian friends used to tell me, “Judaism is a religion of law. Christianity is a religion of love.” Were they right?

A 3-Step Plan for Change This Rosh Hashanah

Forget resolutions that die by January 2nd. This ancient 3-step framework is built for change that actually sticks.

How to Become More Emotionally Connected to Yourself, Your Spouse, and God

Simple ways to feel closer to your spouse, yourself, and God this Elul, no big gestures required.

30 Questions to Ask Yourself Before the New Year

These 30 questions on growth, habits, and relationships will help you figure out what to carry into the new year -- and what to leave behind.

My Brain Is Smart, My Body Is Dumb

My blow-away experience meeting the developmentally disabled young men and women at Camp HASC.

What Being a Rehab Therapist Taught Me About Change

I experienced my most powerful Elul as a therapist at an inpatient treatment center for substance abuse.

Elul: Love Has Everything to Do with It

How to prepare for the High Holidays without the guilt.

Seven Steps to Becoming More Optimistic

Optimism is a skill you can build. Here are seven research-backed steps to train your brain toward hope, resilience, and a better outlook on life.

The Six Skills You Need to Transform Your Habits

Inspired by Atomic Habits, these six skills can help you transform your actions, shape your identity, and prepare for meaningful growth.

Four Inspiring Questions to Jumpstart Your Growth

These four questions can spark the change you've been putting off. As the Jewish month of Elul begins, here's where to start.

How to Stop Assuming the Worst About Other People

A late husband, an unanswered text. Five ways to stop assuming the worst about the people you love.

What Rome’s Great Synagogue Taught Me About Change

A trip to Rome's Great Synagogue led me to an insight about hope, and why it's the one thing real change depends on.

8 Things You Can Do Now to Prepare for Death

You can avoid compounding the pain of your loved ones when you are gone.

She Is Pure: Preparing the Deceased for Jewish Burial

The passage of death is shrouded in altruistic kindness.

My 30-Day No Complaining Challenge

It was way harder than I thought. Here are my three main lessons.

Tisha B'Av: What Is This Day Really About?

What are we actually mourning on Tisha B'Av? It's not just ancient history. It's about home, belonging, and the hope we still carry today.

The One Day Judaism Asks You to Cry

Once a year, Judaism gives you permission to stop being strong. Here's a simple writing exercise to help you feel what you've been holding in.

Why Tisha B'Av Should Hurt More Every Year

The real cost of the destruction of the Temple keeps adding up, generation after generation.

Tisha B’Av: Meeting God in the Ruins

Tisha B’Av, the Jewish People’s national day of tragedy, is paradoxically a sacred festival. Discover how pain and distance can unlock the deepest closeness with God.

Overcoming Procrastination

Three Jewish strategies to stop putting off what matters most, before "not now" quietly turns into never.

Seven Pearls of Wisdom from a 102-Year-Old Holocaust Survivor

Pearl Hinda just turned 102 years old, survived the Holocaust, and rebuilt her life from nothing. Here are the seven lessons she wants you to know.

Undecided: Six Rules to Help You Make Decisions

Six practical rules to cut through the noise and choose with clarity and confidence.

The Only Way to Protect Teens from Peer Pressure

Teens who have genuine self-worth don’t need what the crowd is offering.

Think Big, Act Small

Five practical steps to find your purpose, manage your time, and build the life you actually want.

The Knicks Did It, and So Can You

The Knicks just ended a 53-year drought with the greatest comeback in NBA history. The secret to how they pulled it off is one of the most powerful ideas in Judaism.

How Freakonomics Author Stephen Dubner Found His Way Back to Judaism

Dubner grew up Catholic and served as an altar boy. When he discovered his parents were Jewish, it launched a search for his identity that changed everything.

When You Feel Unloved or Unlovable

Why you may feel unloved and what to do about it.

Don’t Be A Fiddler on the Roof Jew

Jewish identity can’t be built on someone else’s emotions.

Stay in Your Lane (And 5 Other Spiritual Instructions)

The rules of the road turn out to be a surprisingly good guide for living.

Eight Ways to Stop People-Pleasing

You say yes when you mean no. You apologize when you did nothing wrong. People-pleasing feels like kindness — but it's slowly costing you yourself.

Jewish Wisdom for Life After Graduation

Mazel tov on graduating! Here’s some relevant guidance for your journey ahead.

When You Almost Blow It

The Jewish people overslept during the most important moment in history. What they did with that regret will change how you see your own mistakes.

The Peel Before the Fruit

The obstacles frustrating you may actually be protecting the growth, strength, and sweetness you’re meant to uncover.

What Actually Makes People Happy

Why you can be busy, entertained, and still feel empty.

When Life Pushes You Off a Cliff

Cliffs come for everyone. A sudden loss, a job gone, a relationship over. Here's how to navigate the fog and begin again.

What Billionaires Taught Me

10 lessons on failure, purpose, and being Jewish.

Five Lessons My Mom, a NY State Supreme Court Judge, Taught Me

She lost her first case, her first election, and never once stopped moving forward.

The Smarter Way to Fix a Strained Relationship

Most people try to repair relationships by focusing on what's broken. Instead build on what's going right.

10 Ways to Get a Grip on Worry

Here are some of the most effective anti-worry tools.

How to Listen Better: Seven Practices That Change Relationships

You think you're listening, but you're probably not. You're waiting and planning, and only half‑present. Here are seven practices that will change every conversation you have.

How We Spend Our Time: Six Graphs That Change Everything

A researcher charted how we actually spend our time. The patterns are stunning, a little brutal, and might change how you live.

How to Stop Chasing Perfection

Perfectionism steals your joy, stalls your growth, and disconnects you from the people you love. Here are five ways to overcome the perfectionism trap.

7 Ways to Say Difficult Things Better

Sometimes the most important things we need to say are the hardest. These seven tools help you say them well, and strengthen relationships in the process.

Are You Holding Your Phone or Is It Holding You?

Take the 30-day challenge to reclaim your life.

Six Ways to Move Forward Even When You’re Afraid

The sea didn't split until Nachson jumped in. Here's how to take that first step when you're frozen with fear.

Even Moses Had Imposter Syndrome

The greatest leader in Jewish history didn't feel qualified either. Six science-backed ways to stop waiting to feel ready and start moving anyway.

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