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At a time when antisemitism is on the rise, these proud Black Jews shatter stereotypes and speak out about their culture and religion.
There are many prominent Black artists in the entertainment industry who happen to be Jewish. At a time when antisemitism is on the rise, these proud Black Jews shatter stereotypes and speak out about their culture and religion.
Check out some of the Black artists with Jewish moms to see if there’s anyone familiar on this list.

Doja Cat, whose real name is Amala Ratna Zandile Dlamini, was born in Tarzana, a neighborhood in Los Angeles, to a Jewish mother, painter Deborah Elizabeth Sawyer, and a Black father, actor and composer Dumisani Dlamini. The rapper, who has millions of views on her songs and videos, discussed her Jewish and Black background in an interview, saying, “My mum was kind of a hip-hop head, really ironic because I’m Jewish, my grandma’s Jewish, she’s white, and she was never exposed to music like that until she started meeting people and she was like ‘wow, I really love this’. So once she had me, she would play a lot of Erykah Badu, a lot of Fugees, Jamiroquai, Seal, Earth, Wind & Fire, Alice Coltrane and John Coltrane.”

Actor and rapper Daveed Diggs starred as Marquis de Lafayette and Thomas Jefferson in the hit Broadway musical “Hamilton,” and then went on to perform on “Black-ish” and in the remake of “The Little Mermaid.” Born to a Jewish mother, Barbara, and a Black father, Dountes, he was named Daveed, the Hebrew pronunciation of “David.” Growing up, he went to Hebrew school, and in 2020, he released a song called “Puppy For Hanukkah,” a catchy holiday tune that racked up over 2.1 million views on YouTube. “I am Jewish,” Diggs once said, “and I was raised as a more practicing Jew than I am now.”

Canadian actor-turned-rapper Drake, whose real name is Aubrey Drake Graham, was born to Jewish mom Sandra "Sandi" Graham, an English teacher, and Dennis Graham, a drummer from Memphis, Tenn. who played with Jerry Lee Lewis. Drake went to Jewish day school in Toronto and had a bar mitzvah; he held another bar mitzvah for his 31st birthday and made a funny sketch about it for “Saturday Night Live.” In his 2019 song “Still Drake,” he rapped, “I was born to do it, born to make bomb music/I flow tight like I was born Jewish/Well, actually I was born Jewish.”

Actress Rashida Jones is the daughter of Peggy Lipton, an actress whose Jewish parents were from Latvia, and famous American record producer, Quincy Jones. Rashida went to Hebrew school in her childhood and loves her Judaism, saying in a 2007 interview, “We always celebrated the High Holidays. I did fast in high school for Yom Kippur and attend services. We always went to seder for Passover. I really liked the cultural and the familial side of Judaism. It was always the most comfortable place for me, making time for family and community.” On the show “Who Do You Think You Are?” Rashida learned about the only Jew in her family who survived the Holocaust, becoming emotional about her ancestors’ history. She is married to Ezra Koenig, the Jewish frontman of the indie band Vampire Weekend, with whom she shares a son, Isaiah.

Zoë Kravitz is Black and has Jewish lineage on both sides; her mother, actress Lisa Bonet, is the daughter of Arlene Joyce Litman, a Jewish schoolteacher, and Allen Bonet, a Black opera singer. Her father, musician Lenny Kravitz, is the son of a Jewish father, journalist and TV producer Sy Kravitz, and a Black mother, actress Roxie Roker. The “Catwoman” star has said she is obsessed with Larry David and touched upon her heritage in one interview, saying, “Jews and African-Americans have had so much pain, carried so much on their shoulders, and come so far.”

Musician and bestselling author James McBride, who wrote “The Color of Water” and “The Heaven & Earth Grocery Store,” is the son of a Black minister father, Rev. Andrew D. McBride, and a Jewish immigrant from Poland, Ruchel Dwajra Zylska. Both of McBride’s books are about his Black and Jewish roots; in “The Heaven & Earth Grocery Store,” two Jews decide to hide a local deaf Black boy, Dodo, so that the authorities can’t take him to a horrible mental hospital. The books is brimming with an insider’s view of Jewish practice. When it comes to Black and Jewish relations, McBride told The Forward, “Despite all our differences, there’s plenty of common ground. What I tried to do in this book is show how people simply excused a lot of those differences, set them aside for the moment, and got to the business of finding the meal that would feed us all. I just wanted to show in this book that we have gotten along very well. We have got to stick together and deal with the reality of where we are. We’re in deep water, and we will end up in deeper water if we don’t pay attention.”

Another successful author, Walter Mosley, has been dubbed “America's Blackest Jewish Writer.” He is well-known for his crime series featuring detective Easy Rawlins, a Black private investigator who lives in the Watts area of Los Angeles. Mosley’s mother Ella Slatkin was a Jewish personnel clerk, while his Black father worked as a supervising custodian at a public school in LA. He’s talked publicly about how offensive it is to call Jews white and his Jewish upbringing. In an interview with Moment magazine he said, “People say to me, ‘Well, Walter, you’re both black and white.’ And I go, ‘No, I’m black, and I’m Jewish. Jews are not white people.’ They get mad at me. American Jews get mad at me. White people get mad at me. Black people get mad at me.” He recites the line from an old Tom Lehrer lyric, “Oh, the Protestants hate the Catholics and the Catholics hate the Protestants and the Hindus hate the Muslims, and everybody hates the Jews!”
Describing growing up with his mother’s extended Jewish family, he said in an interview with The Forward, “There was never a moment where I felt ostracized or ignored. I got along great with them, hanging out with them, doing things with them. They were wonderful.” He paused wistfully to remember his favorite, Uncle Chaim, 80 years old and 4 feet 9 inches, who’d been a tailor in the old country: “I just loved him.”
He told Tablet, “My cousin Lilly used to teach me Yiddish curses in English. I remember one—she said: ‘You should be like a chandelier—hanging and burning.’ It was kind of wonderful.”

Legendary comedian Richard Pryor married Shelley Bonus, a Jewish go-go dancer turned astronomer, and they had Rain Pryor, an actress, singer, and comedian in her own right. They divorced when Rain was only 6 months old, and her mother, bubbe, and zayde mostly raised her. In her book, Rain talked about being discriminated against for being Black and a Jew, and she created a one-woman show about her childhood called, “Fried Chicken and Latkes.” She’s said publicly that she lights Shabbat candles, and she joked, “I’m Black and Jewish, which means I’m proud, but yet I feel so guilty for it!”

And yet none of them are defenders of Israel during these extremely difficult times.
It's a SAD DAY when Aish condones Intermarriage.
Can't call yourself ORTHODOX anymore, Aish.
Nowhere in this article did the author condone intermarriage.
This may be simplistic but I was under the belleif that having a Jewish mother gave the child (with kitted exceptions such as denouncing their Jewishness) right of return. Doesn't that make themJewish?
By the way, my wife converted many years before we met. She is far more knowledgeable than I about Torah. Being Jewish has lots of nuances, theological, sociological, anthropological. There is rom for all of us in the Judaism that my wife and I practice. One size does not fit all.
Intermarriage is a sin. It is one of the 613 Commandments. Your brand of Judaism isn't kosher. What don't you Understand?
I understand that your brand of Judaism works for you. It doesn't work for me. A narrow minded approach to what makes someone a Jew is likely to create more problems within Judaism than solve them. I would not ask you to join my Reform temple because its right for me. I hope you have the same amount of respect for my views.
True story. I was walking along a street in NY and was approached by some young men who asked me if I had put Tefillin on that day. I said no, I didnot and I would not, but were mybwife here she would love to do it. Thebyoung man was aghast, he said women couldn't wear Tefillin and said I should put it them on to honor her. I said no, to do so would honor neither her nor the rite. Stunned, he walked away..I felt sorry for him.
It's not my brand of Judaism. It is the source of Judaism and how the religion and the people have survived for 4000 years. One of the 613 Commandments is Do not take a non-Jew for your spouse. It has preserved our people generation to generation.
We can see what has happened when in the last few generations in diaspora. The results have been horrific.
Judaism is not just a religion but also a rich traditions. I go to reform synagogue, but it clear that women don't put tfilin or wear kipa. Those are a modern waves, that not respect our traditions.
Someone hasn’t heard about Rashi’s daughters. Not modern. Very respectful of tradition. Put on tefillin daily.
From all your comments here, it's clear you need to spend more time studying the mitzvot bein adam le-chavero.
And while we are at it. The fact that Jews come in a variety of colors hair textures and ideologies (even among europeans) shows it's not just the "sun kissed) among us. Think about it. Division among at this time is no healthy. A house divided...
You can't control who you fall in love with.
Yes you can.
Walter Mosley got it right--Jews ain't White people. So stop calling us White.
Walter Mosley is right, Jews are not white
is this something that is supposed to make us proud? intermarriage?
what are you trying to say ???
very simple. intermarriage is a destructive force in our nation, a sad one, with many innocent casualties but a catastrophe nonetheless. If so, what place does this article have on a website that is supposed to promote and celebrate jewish values?
clear enough for you?
Well, in the Purim story Esther(Hadassah) had to intermarry to save the Jewish people, and we read her story on Purim
Not only did Esther's intermarriage save the Jewish people. But her son, who became the next Persian Emperor, is the person who enabled the Jews to return to Jerusalem and rebuild the Temple. May we merit more such "products" of intermarriage!
They were very devoted to Hashem and His laws - I agree that we should merit more products of intermarriage.
These INTERMARRIAGES are not saving the Jewish People.
IT IS DESTROYING THE JEWISH PEOPLE.
look at your words "she had to"
None of these 8 children of intermarriages saved Judaism, rather in mass the opposite has happened.
So, do you think it's important that every Jewish person with a non-Jewish father should be pointed out as an "innocent casualty," part of a "catastrophe?" Do you think that's psychologically healthy? Do you know about the obligation to love your fellow Jew? Do you think your attitude is reflective of loving fellow Jews? I think your words are hurtful, so much so that if one of the people in the article would read your words they'd feel hurt. Then your words would be a violation of the Torah prohibition against hurting someone with your words. That's pretty serious. The only way to remedy that would be to contact them & ask for forgiveness. Do you understand pushing people away causes pain? Do you understand that everything has a time & place? Ask your rav.
if I told you there were one million kids in America who don't know how to read would you not call that a catastrophe? and wouldn׳t it be silly to think that its insulting to those kids to call it that way?
Lehavdil, what If I told you that there were one million kids in America who don't even know what Kriat Shema is. Is that not a catastrophe?
Because of that understanding of what a major catastrophe that is, a giant named Rabbi Noach Weinberg set out on a mission, and this website is supposed to represent that mission.
That my friend, is all I meant to say. And if you can't connect the dots between intermarriage and the very sorry state of Judaism that we have here in America and across the world frankly, than I think you are part of the problem. Awareness is crucial
Honestly, Elija, I think you are mixing up the cause and the effect with each other.
Why did God allow the Temple to be destroyed? Not because of intermarriage, which has always existed. But because of Jewish disunity, bickering like what is going on here, a lack of love between Jews.
When anyone objectifies other people by calling them "products" or implying that they aren't real Jews, as many do in their attitudes towards converts, such behavior is fundamentally divisive. Instead of helping us all to experience a sense of unity and oneness, this type of behavior creates divisions and "others". This is the opposite of loving.
who ever said they aren't real jews? who said anything about converts? intermarriage means when someone who is so far removed and so sadly ignorant of his/her glorious heritage sees no issue in sharing their lives with someone who is not from said heritage.
when someone marries a convert which means someone who undertook to keep the laws of the torah, that is not intermarriage, that is jewish marriage. I think you are the one that is being offensive to our brother and sisters who are converts by implying that marriage to them is called "intermarriage"
You don't think Intermarriage is Jewish disunity?
Because of EVERYTHING he referenced in Deuteronomy 18: 9-12
Exactly.
took the words right out of my mouth rob
You are so right, Ra'anan! Every single Jew is equal, and equally deserving of feeling included. God is the judge, not any of us.
who is judging?
How would you feel if someone called YOU or your CHILD an "innocent causality?" How would you feel if someone said you or your child were the result of a "CATASTROPHE?" There's an isur de-oraita of ona-at devarim. Do you understand your words can cause pain & you would be responsible for that or any damage from that? Judaism believes in measure for measure consequences, so far better to kiss than kick.
ANALOGY: if they would see my child and all of his friends in a school that by 8th grade they don't know how to read and calls it a catastrophe in order to raise awareness instead of sugar-coating it, I would most certainly feel nothing but gratitude towards that person, and I would certainly not feel insulted, nope not one bit
Ra'anan if you are getting into technical mitzvos already perhaps you should know that the prohibitions you are speaking about "loving fellow Jews", etc - actually only apply to Jews that keep the Torah. So of course that doesn't mean we should hate or be mean to anyone G-d forbid, but the posters point was well taken that intermarriage is a terrible and unfortunate thing and not something to celebrate or take pride in. That being said the Jews should certainly be reached out to and tried to show the truth and beauty of their actual heritage. But no, there is no mitzvah to love Jews that don't believe in the Torah.
I think the Rebbe would disagree. He emphasized loving ALL Jews. And meeting each person where s/he is.
The Rebbe would say Do Not engage in Intermarriage. It destroys the Community.
He is saying Intermarriage is against OUR RELIGION.
What don't you understand?
He is saying Intermarriage is not permitted and has destroyed us as a group and the lives of individuals.
Ethiopia was good enough for moishe
Nobody is saying black people can't be Jews, anyone can convert to Judaism if done properly, I believe that Elija's well made point is that all of these artists are products of intermarriage where there were no conversions, just plain intermarriage, and that is something that seems a bit odd to be celebrating on a religious website.
So was Ruth wrong?this website shows that yes, via intermarrying there are jocs. What IS portant is what they embrace
And who/what embraces them. You infer that perhaps hash )who is sovereign and controls all) made so kind of fatal flaw in the events of life
All I can say take it up with HIm. Do that.
I don't understand any of the arguments on this comment board. Ruth? Moshe? Ruth was according to some, converted before she was married. And if I remember correctly, the other opinion that says she was not converted before being married, that is the reason her husband died young, for the crime of intermarrying. Later in life she proved herself through extreme devotion to Hashem and His laws and serves as a paradigm for love of G-d and His mitzvos - so what do you mean was Ruth wrong? If you mean was her husband wrong for marrying her on the side that she wasn't Jewish yet, yes, he was wrong.
Intermarriage is not being celebrated. Would you slam the door on any of these people for the sake of "not celebrating intermarriage?"
of course not
of course not - nobody is suggesting to slam the door on these people - these people are wonderful Jews and should certainly be reached out towards and attempted to show the truth and beauty of their heritage.
Zipporah converted. Big difference.
Strictly speaking, no; but the people featured in this article are Halachicly Jewish - and isn’t it better they be proud of themselves than self-hating?
Right, if your mother is Jewish you are Jewish, even if your father is not Jewish also whatever color the father is it does not matter, it matter to identify as a proud Jew and are part of our tribe
What should make you proud is the ability to love ALL JEWS, including "products of intermarriage." Jewish people with a non-Jewish father have only a 25% chance of marrying Jewish. The further away from the source, the higher the neshama because H' doesn't put anyone in a situation that can't deal with. This includes SO many people with SO many challenges. I actually reached out to one of the lovely people in this article many years ago. It took me years to craft what I'd say to say to her because sometimes you meet people in an elevator. Her response was pure, emotional, excited joy. She said the Jewish community never accepted her. Would you? Moshe Rabenu sought to rectify all of Ham's children (saved by the princess of Egypt, married queen of Kush, married daughter Put(iel), CONT...
CONT... Moshe accept Cana'anites who'd gone out to Sinai to join his people. But these 8 people are OUR people. If you can't see that, then you're stopping the geula. We merited going out of Egypt for doing chesed w/one another. Are you ready to do chesed with ALL JEWS?
did I ever say I have any issue with these products of intermarriage? no. are they of fault? no. Am I judging them or even their parents who married out of the faith? nope. Is it off for this website to give a subtle message that it is so cool that these people have a goyish father and a jewish mother? absolutely.
These Jewish people are not "products" and it is offensive for anyone to objectify them in this manner. Lest you forget, numerous revered biblical figures also married nonJewish people. Yet we continue to celebrate these individuals as role models. Somehow an article that is gushing about how these high profile people of color are still dedicated to Judaism turns into "advocacy" for intermarriage in your mind.
I think these beautiful Jewish people who happen to have non-Jewish fathers happen to be cool. Do you think they are uncool for some reason?
While you have a valid point, I think the “cool” thing the article emphasizes is the fact that these people embrace their Jewish heritage (to some extent at least). So many don’t. And being prominent people this has impact on US society.
How sad the Jewish community didn't accept her, maybe if she went to the Sephardic communities that are dark skinned would accept her better, some Sephardic people look almost black, also there are black Jews in Israel from Ethiopia and some blacks from America the Islands in the Carribean that converted or have Jewish ancestery because their fathers were Sephardic Jews that married black women, Jews are in exile for 2000 years some of the products of intermarriage might convert to Judaism, or the non Jewish spouse could convert to Judaism a lot of men marry out more than Jewish women making the kids non Jews altogether
Intermarriage is damaging whether it is a man or woman who intermarries. We are a minority of minorities. We lost 25 percent of our population in the Holocaust and probably even more with Intermarriage in diaspora.
The problem is the SELF HATE us Jews have or they would not marry out.
There is nothing wrong with conversion. There are black converts. They are Jews. There are black Jews who are Ethiopian who are original Jews, like Sephardic and Ashkenazi Jews.
The article's title is "8 Famous Black Artists with Jewish Moms" That implies Intermarriage or it would say "8 Famous Black Artists with Jewish Parents"
Now just wait a minute here. All these folks have Jewish mothers, so they are born Jews and no need for conversions here. Is it the Black part you take issue with? Let me tell you something: I'm a biracial giyoret, White/Mexican, who runs a kosher Jewish home which is more than I can say for my born Jewish MIL who flips the pages of the siddur on Yom Kippur and wants to do Easter brunch.
what the heck
It's not the Black part people are objecting to. There are Jews from Africa, Ethiopians. There have been converts to Judaism. None of these people are from Converted Jews, but the product of an Intermarriage. Intermarriage in the US is almost 70 percent. So don't push your Racism on we who disagree with this disgusting article.
https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2021/05/11/marriage-families-and-children/
Their mothers are Jews so that makes them bona fide Jews from birth. Their mothers' marriages have nothing to do with the matter. This article wasn't about interfaith marriage but about Black Jews and it wasn't condoning interfaith marriage. How am I pushing racism? As a biracial person myself it would look odd if I took a racist stance to say the least. I accept all Jews as my brothers and sisters regardless of race.
It doesn't matter what you accept. All of these people are products of intermarriage. Intermarriage is a prohibition against the Torah. It has definitely damaged the Jewish community as we lose more and more of our population.
But they have non-Jewish fathers. That's the problem. It's only a Kosher marriage if both are Jews.
There are multi generational black Jews. The fact that you view being black at odds with being Jewish is a sad statement of how far we have to go as a people. Aish is a site geared toward outreach, and connecting people to their jewishness through the culture they consume is a positive thing.
kindly indicate where I insinuated that being black is at odds with being Jewish. Thanks
The people in this article are not from Converts. They are from intermarriages, which is prohibited and do harm the rest of the Jewish communities. It made it much more difficult for a Jew to marry a Jew. The intermarriage rate is almost 70 percent.
https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2021/05/11/marriage-families-and-children/
Multi generational black Jews is not the subject. Of course there are black Jews who have converted or families have converted. There are Ethiopian Jews. This is not the case in this article. The mothers are Jewish and the fathers are obviously not. This is INTERMARRIAGE. What can't you understand about Intermarriage. It is prohibited for a reason. It has certainly destroyed the Jewish Community in diaspora.
Yoseph had a coat of MANY colors
? Is his coat supposed to represent a veiled approval of intermarriage? I think I am missing the relevance of your comment.
You are not missing a thing. The richness/value mentioned is not because of the type of cloth. Not if it was wool/silk/etc. what was clearly mentioned was a coat of Many many colors.maybe you need to chat with a Rabbi
Read with depth.
The majority of US Jews are now intermarried. ALL Jews are obligated to love ALL Jews. Do you think bringing up "intermarriage" in response to this article will bring intermarrieds or their kids CLOSER to Judaism or DRIVE THEM AWAY? Do your words show LOVE towards them or something else? Do you understand what effect your words can have?
Intermarriage is wiping out a larger population. It has made it much more difficult for Jews to marry other Jews because MORE NON-JEWS MARRY JEWS THAN JEW DO.
https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2021/05/11/marriage-families-and-children/
It's pathetic that it's gotten to this where more non-Jews marry Jews than Jews do.
What in the world does that mean. God had a commandment You shall not intermarry.
It is written in the Torah about permitted and not permitted marriages