Im Yirtzeh Hashem by You
Shira Brown used to hate going to weddings. After the wedding and during the reception, her aunts and all of the other older women would come up to her and say “Im yirtzeh Hashem by you” which means – God willing, you should be next.
But Shira got them to stop. Know how? At funerals she started approaching the older women saying, “Im yirtzeh Hashem by you”!