I’m a Gentile Teaching at an Orthodox Jewish School

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June 18, 2023

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And this is what I’ve learned.

I grew up in New York City, so I thought I had a generally good understanding of what it meant to be Jewish, as far as a Gentile like me could understand. After all, I love Katz’s deli and attended many Passover Seders at my best friend's house.

But teaching biology at Ramaz, an Orthodox Jewish school, this past year showed me how little I knew.

I was bowled over by the students’ collective fearlessness when it came to discussing ideas and debating their points without fear.

I would tell the head of my department whenever there might be a controversial issue that might come up in biology class just to give her a heads up. She would nod her head and say, "Okay, as long as the science is clear to the students." She wasn’t overly concerned with how potentially spirited the debate might get between students.

This is rather different from what I have experienced at other schools where the unspoken rule was to avoid or minimize discussing issues that could be potential hot buttons. Biology is a subject where a lot of landmine issues can be found; issues around gender, race and sexuality can inadvertently turn a lesson into a hotbed of political strife. Even topics as innocuous as natural selection can be a proverbial landmine if a teacher isn’t careful.

Students in the past have confided in me that they are nervous expressing their points of view out of fear that they will be shunned or canceled. I don't know what is in a student’s heart and mind, but at Ramaz not once have I had a student share fears like that with me.

Jewish culture embraces discussion, argumentation and hearing various points of view and that helps to prevent or at least minimize that kind of idea policing. As part of the culture, students study the Talmud and they learn to read multiple interpretations and commentaries of Torah passages. These students have grown up in a world where it is normal and expected for people to have strong perspectives on important issues, but it’s also expected that your point of view be supported by more than feelings – there needs to be evidence and logic to support your conclusion.

Growing up in a culture that demands logical, refined thinking results in students who don't feel the need to ostracize someone who dissents from the consensus.

These students have grown into a culture that says, “In order to get closer to the truth, at least as best as humans can approximate it, it’s important to hear multiple perspectives.” This kind of outlook and education is rather different than what many students experience at other educational institutions where they may be less likely to hear or appreciate the idea that respectable people can have differing points of view.

Growing up in a culture that demands logical, refined thinking results in students who may get annoyed at one another for their points of view but don't feel the need to ostracize someone who dissents from the consensus. I have not once seen a student who felt like they couldn't share their opinion on an issue in a class. This kind of fearlessness is refreshing, and all too rare.

Helping Others

As important as being able to discuss academic and philosophical issues, the most important thing about education is how it can help challenge a person to go out into the world and make it better because of their engagement. I have seen firsthand the importance Ramaz places on helping students develop this sense of mission and caring about others.

Students talked about their experiences on service trips where they helped renovate houses in New Orleans. On this particular trip students went down to the Lower 9th Ward, an area that still echoes the effects of Hurricane Katrina. They worked all week to renovate homes that were water damaged. Additionally, the students cooked and served over 150 homeless people.

It seems like every week there is a new initiative to help other people. Whether it is toy drives or fundraisers, the spirit of giving permeates this institution and strongly influences students to offer the best of themselves to the world from a young age.

I have taken away a lot of wonderful experiences teaching at Ramaz this year. From learning Hebrew vocabulary from students to learning the basic rules of Shechita, ritual slaughter, I have received a taste of a world I only knew at the tiniest level. I am grateful for the opportunity to appreciate a culture that is a beautiful diverse melting pot that has come together in sharing the same values. I'm a better teacher and, hopefully, a bit more of a mensch thanks to my time within the Orthodox community.

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Batsheva
Batsheva
2 months ago

Its nice to read about a POSITIVE experience, especially during the current events of our times. I enjoyed reading about someone's ability to see the good from where they are. No one is perfect and some people choose to see only the bad. They obsess about it, and accomplish....nothing useful. So good for you, this ability to see the good will be a blessing to you! (It would've been easy to write a story about how annoying and difficult it is being a HS teacher).

As a convert to Judaism, I take interest in the experiences of when the worlds of Jews and non-Jews meet. I am comforted when they are good experiences, and it gives me hope for this "better tomorrow" that all human beings want, but not all are willing to believe is possible. May we be successful in building that better world!

Selim Tlili
Selim Tlili
2 months ago
Reply to  Batsheva

Hi Batsheva

Thank you so much for reading my article and finding some joy out of reading it that really makes me happy.
I agree - there is such a tendency to write about negative experiences in life. I think there is something in the human condition that draws us to the negative experiences of others.
There are two interesting kinds of cultural beauty that I have discovered - there is the kind that people can only notice if they are a part of the culture and there is beauty that hard for you to see when you are a part of the culture.
When I wrote this all of my Jewish teacher friends appreciated what I observed - for them they took so much of it for granted.
I've written other articles about Jewish culture at selim.digital - I'd love to encourage you to read my other pieces!

Etty Neuman
Etty Neuman
3 months ago

What a nice heartwarming article! Thank you for sharing your experience!

Selim Tlili
Selim Tlili
2 months ago
Reply to  Etty Neuman

Hi Etty! Thank you for reading the article - I enjoyed writing it and getting a glimpse into a world I didn't know. One of the interesting things about being an outsider is that you can appreciate certain kinds of beauty that insiders take for granted. This was one of those moments and I am glad that I was able to share it!

Please feel free to check out other articles about what I learned from working at a Jewish school that I have written at my website selim.digital.

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