The Giving Tree: A Tu B’Shvat Insight.
The holiday of trees celebrates the essence of life and Creation: giving.
According to Jewish tradition, Tu B'Shvat is the New Year for Trees. There was a practical reason for trees to have their own designated New Year. As my esteemed colleague, Rabbi Kalman Packouz writes in his weekly Shabbat Shalom:
In the times of the Temple in Jerusalem, it was used for calculating the tithing year for the fruits of trees. The Talmud tells us that trees stop absorbing water from the ground and instead draw nourishment from their sap on this date. How do we celebrate Tu B'Shvat? We eat fruit -- especially the fruits for which the Torah praises the Land of Israel: "A land of wheat and barley and vines (grapes) and fig trees and pomegranates; a land of olive trees and honey ... and you shall eat and be satisfied, and bless the Lord your God for the good land which He has given you" (Deut. 8:8-10).
Trees played a central role in Creation from the very beginning according to the Torah. The story of Creation names the Tree of Life as an integral part of the Garden of Eden along with the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. Adam and Eve’s downfall came from partaking of the one tree they were supposed to keep away from. They were subsequently booted from the Garden of Paradise - a place defined by trees.
It is no accident that trees have a central role in this seminal episode of history, for if there is anything that defines the very purpose of Creation, it would be trees. One of the most basic lessons in God's creation of the world is that it was an act of total giving on God's part since an Infinite Being has no needs. God didn't create the world because He was bored or wanted some puny humans to praise Him. If the universe were to revert back to nothingness the way it was before Creation, God would still be the same. He does not lack anything, being Infinite, Whole and Perfect. Hence, Creation was a one-way street of giving by God to us. This is what the Talmud means when it declares, “The world is built on kindness.”
Giving defines Creation more than anything else, and Trees define giving more than anything else.
As children we may have been exposed to this idea from the beautiful and moving book, The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein. The book follows the lives of a boy and his apple tree. In his childhood, the boy enjoys playing with the tree, climbing her trunk, swinging from her branches, and eating her apples. However, as the boy grows older and his interests mature, he spends less time with the tree and tends to visit her only when he needs something from her at various stages of his life. In an effort to make the boy happy at each of these periods, the tree gives him parts of herself, which he can transform into material things.
She provides apples that he can sell so he can make money as a young man. She provides her branches that he can build into a house when he is older and needs to provide for a family. She tells him to cut her trunk to make a boat when he hits middle-age and wishes to escape. With every act of giving, "the Tree was happy". However after this she does not see the boy for many years until he finally reappears as an elderly, tired old man. By that time the tree no longer has anything to give, for all that remains is her stump. But the boy states that all he wants is "a quiet place to sit and rest." That is one thing the tree can still give, and so the boy sits quietly down on her stump, and in that simple moment, both were happy.
On Tu B'Shvat, trees are now at a stage where they are sufficiently able to develop fruit to give.
Giving and taking define who we are more than anything else. Giving and taking are essential to developing any relationship with another, but we always need to find the proper balance between the two. On the one hand we cannot just be a taker and thereby not develop any independence for ourselves. On the other hand, by giving too much away and of ourselves we may lose the very definition of who and what we are, as the sad tree did in the story.
So it is noteworthy that the reason the Talmud gives Tu B'Shvat as the date designated as the New Year for Trees is that trees stop absorbing water from the ground and instead draw nourishment from their sap. In essence on Tu B'Shvat, trees become self-sufficient so to speak and no longer depend on the soil. They have spent the necessary time taking and are now at a stage where they are sufficiently able to develop fruit to give. And this is what they do until there is no more, and they are left alone and can then repeat it all over again next year.
So let’s learn from the beloved trees to take when we need, to give when we can and to give of whatever we may have - even if it is merely a stump of what we used to have - and thereby reap the happiness and joy inherent in giving.