The Best Response to Antisemitism

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January 7, 2024

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An open letter to an American Jewish college student.

You were very excited about being admitted to a famous Ivy League university, and you eagerly looked forward to the coming intellectual journey.

And then, almost overnight, there was an explosion of anti-Semitism on your campus and on many other prestigious campuses. Ostensibly, this was in connection with Israel’s strong response to the October 7 massacre in which Hamas terrorists murdered and mutilated 1200 innocent Israelis in cold blood. When you read about the slaughter, you were horrified, as were most civilized people. Although you do not have a strong Jewish background, you were nevertheless proud that Israel responded forcefully to the horror.

But your pride turned into shock when, instead of condemning the October atrocities, many students demonstrated and chanted anti-Israel slogans. Your shock turned to fear as marauding gangs of students taunted you for being a Jew, drew swastikas on Jewish frat houses, called for an intifada against Jews, chanted the genocidal “from the river to the sea.” You actually were worried about your personal safety — especially when the university president refused to clearly condemn the racist behavior of the students.

What, you ask, should be your response?

The awful truth is that there is no lasting response to prejudice and hatred, and especially not to that disease called antisemitism. Whether you cite Biblical proof of Jewish rights to Israel or you appeal to morality or logic, it will have no long-term effect. When we abandoned our Judaism and assimilated, we were still rejected. When we maintained our distinctiveness and remained separate from the outside world, we were called clannish and holier-than-thou. We have been derided as communists and as capitalists, ridiculed for our intellectual bent and condemned for our fighting abilities, accused of manipulating the world’s finances on Wall Street even while we were making the desert bloom in the Negev.

I fear that antisemitism is a part of the DNA of the world, a pestilence for which there is no cure.

I fear that antisemitism is a part of the DNA of the world, a pestilence for which there is no cure. Here and there we find some righteous Gentiles who come to our defense, but for the masses, the disease is inborn. The most we can hope for is that this endemic antisemitism is limited to hate speech and slogans, and does not go beyond that — though history shows that it rarely stops at the mouth but proceeds to the fist and physical violence and even to murder. We can hope for periods of quiet when the hatred stays subsurface, we can pray for extensions of the quiet and continue kicking the can down the road, but Jew-hatred seems to be a fact of Jewish life.

Even before the contributions of billions of Arab petrodollars prostituted our finest universities, the hatred was present; how much more so today. Only a naïf would deny that the Arab billions came with a price tag: Islamic Studies departments with anti-Israel agendas and kid-glove treatment of anti-Semitic pro-Hamas students.

Some Jewish thinkers suggest that, transcending all mundane theories about anti-Semitism, this is G-d’s mysterious way of reminding us who we really are. When we forget that we are the children of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob; the heirs of Moses and Rabbi Akiva and Rambam and the Gaon of Vilna (of whom some Jews have never even heard); when we dismiss the fact that we are Heaven’s deputies to remind mankind that there is a God Who demands morality and self-discipline and love for the neighbor — when we tend to abandon all this in order to assimilate into the outside world and become just like them, then perhaps God taps us on the shoulder and reminds us in His own hidden ways.

There is one truly powerful response that is often overlooked: to become more Jewish.

You ask what should be your response. My suggestion: Although campus counter-demonstrations are fine, and mass rallies in Washington are helpful, and contact with legislators is effective, there is one truly powerful response that is often overlooked: to become more Jewish. That does not mean to eat more gefilte fish or to tell Yiddish jokes. It does mean to defy the hatemongers by looking inward at oneself and to begin behaving more Jewishly. Which means, for example, to turn Friday night into Shabbat, with kiddush, special meals, informal discussions, group singing, and no distracting Smartphones. Or: To take five minutes every morning and don tefillin and read the first paragraph of the Shema in any language in the privacy of your own room. Or: Do some reading on your own of any classic Jewish text. Or — and this will take some courage — to wear a kippah/yarmulke on campus as a sign of your Jewish pride and your defiance of the haters. (Of the thousands of Jewish students, are there ten young men who have the guts to do this?)

I am not suggesting that you suddenly become an Orthodox Jew. I am suggesting that in addition to the obvious steps against antisemitism, you and your Jewish friends take a step out of the box, do something different and heroic: become a more Jewish Jew — even if this has not been your lifestyle. They wish to destroy all vestiges of Judaism; you don’t cringe, but stand tall as a member of our holy, eternal people.

A version of this article originally appeared in Mishpacha magazine.

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dovid
dovid
1 month ago

Rabbi Chaim Voloshin wrote, if a Yid doesnt make Kidush, Hashem makes Havdalah.
Kidush means, try to be holy, learn & try to follow the Torah & therefore try to stay apart from other people that dont have the same mindset, because they will surely influence you, the least by osmosis. look at the world around us, how crazy & anti God, has it become.
We believe in God & are guided by the Torah. Nothing happens in the world without Hahems oversight. There's a reason for everything that happens but we, with our myopic vision, just cant understand it all, until we get to Shomayim or Moshiach comes. Sometimes were lucky & x amount of years later we understand why, what happened.

Steve
Steve
2 months ago

This is an article of positivity of strength. To be at one with Am Yisrael, Join a minyan, read Jewish novels - GREAT Jewish novels like EXODUS, MILA 18, Herman Wouk’s books. Kol HaKavod!

Alaine
Alaine
2 months ago

I've been brought up as a christian; I have always been a prosemite; I'm an old woman-can I please wear a kippah in solidarity, without offending you?

Steve
Steve
2 months ago
Reply to  Alaine

absolutely you Can!!! Get an Israeli Hostage necklace - Google it on Amazon! ❤️🇮🇱🤗

Chanie
Chanie
2 months ago
Reply to  Alaine

That is such a kind and beautiful offer, thank you! In Orthodox circles, women don't wear a kippah, but as Steve suggested you can wear an Israeli hostage necklace, that would certainly be welcome.

Alan S.
Alan S.
3 months ago

Become more adherent, yes. But watch your back on campus.

LyndaH
LyndaH
3 months ago

Could we have another article with a similar title for non Jews? We also want to fight antisemitism and support our friends.

Steve
Steve
2 months ago
Reply to  LyndaH

YES!! Post a blue square 🟦 in all your e-mails as a sign of your solidarity with the Jewish people! If you are so inclined you can join thousands of Jews and non-Jews in volunteering to help Israel - look at this- you don’t HAVE to be Jewish! We love you!
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mrs blech
mrs blech
3 months ago

Ernest Hemingway ( i think)
living well is the best revenge

Robert Whig
Robert Whig
3 months ago

We must cling more closely than ever to Israel.

It is the only piece of land that is ours.

Our only bolt hole and place of refuge from the anti-semites.

Steve
Steve
2 months ago
Reply to  Robert Whig

AMEN!

Ruth Broch
Ruth Broch
3 months ago

I totally agree with this article, but the most important point for all Jews now living in the Diaspora was left out - to leave all of these Jew-hating countries and come home to our ONLY homeland, the Land that Hashem gave to us only - Eretz Yisrael! I implore you all to save your lives and come home as soon as you possibly can.

Steve
Steve
2 months ago
Reply to  Ruth Broch

I read your post with a year in my eye.
I’m too old now, but had a chance to make Aliyah at 20, and follow family into the IDF, but I didn’t. We can’t redo the past. I’ve visited Israel twice and raised two strong Zionist thinking sons. Who knows?

David
David
3 months ago

I disagree - Jew hatred is not 'inborn' - that would mean that people don't have free choice.

Carmen Judith Arroyo
Carmen Judith Arroyo
2 months ago
Reply to  David

No one is born with prejudice, however household, school and sometimes institutions of faith influence prejudice ideas and feelings.

Fr. James Lueckenhoff
Fr. James Lueckenhoff
3 months ago

here in Lake Charles, La. in the spring of 2021 after two major hurricanes hit land and destroyed many churches and did major damage to Temple Sinai, I invited the Jewish Community to use our Episcopal Church facilities for their Shabbat and Honnukah. They obliged and the three times they used the facilities it was a great celebration. Also, Rabbi Barry Weinstein from Baton Rouge, serving Temple Sinai conducted the funeral of a prominent Jewish lady who taught nursing at a local university. I wrote two stories for Rabbi Weinsteing A Rabbi Comes To The Forest, and Hannukah In The Forest. They are about three animals who are deputies to the sheriff and who oversee this wonderful place where lots of people come to tell their story. Wonder times. I learned a lot. We were a counter culture.

M carland
M carland
3 months ago

Perhaps a Jewish President @ Harvard

Julie
Julie
3 months ago
Reply to  M carland

Sadly there are many Jews who are basically what is called self-hating and just because there was a Jewish person in power doesn't mean they would help the Jewish students. Those type of Jewish persons go the opposite direction and could make it worse. Really no way to tell, until you see their actions (could be helpful, just not a guarantee)

Steve
Steve
2 months ago
Reply to  Julie

Just take a look at Tony Blinken - a Jew married to a non-Jew. What do you think?
More than any form of Jew Hatred what scares me the most are Jews who stayed the same after October 7th

Eliza
Eliza
3 months ago

Thank you for these wise words.

Ephraim Ponce
Ephraim Ponce
3 months ago

May Hashem bless you rabbi! You are absolutely correct.

Ruth Berkovits
Ruth Berkovits
3 months ago

I am very disturbed by the rise of antisemitism in this country and the universities.
My parents were Holocaust survivors. They remained true to their religion. They were Orthodox. By the time my parents passed away they had merited to see many
grandchildren and great grandchildren who followed in their ways. Like my mother said when my oldest daughter got married. "I am dancing on Hitler's head;" What sweet revenge. I guess the Jew haters never learn. They will get their just reward.

Steven Finer
Steven Finer
3 months ago

Ver well written and to the point. Thank you, Rabbi Feldman. Steven Finer

Ben Blue
Ben Blue
3 months ago

The BEST response is to arm yourself and take advantage of the 2nd. Amendment!

Steve
Steve
2 months ago
Reply to  Ben Blue

Done cautiously with proper training and a “clear head” this can be a good thing . The cops can’t be everywhere.

Sue G
Sue G
3 months ago

sorry, i think you are wrong. You want me to convert to Christianity because there is Jew hatred in the world? Thats not an answer. I assume you know that during the holocaust, for a jew to be sent to Auschwitz, it didn't matter if the person converted, or if there family or their grandparents converted. they were still Jewish.

In fact even if a person converted you are still a jew.

Marianne
Marianne
3 months ago

I couldn't disagree with you more. My ancestors were Marranos who did exactly as you suggest for whatever reason, I do not know. Some of them who were Christians and living in Europe at the time of the second world war, died in Dachau regardless. Antisemitism found them. It doesn't care if a Jew has pathetically begged forgiveness for being Jewish by becoming a Christian. In fact, it hates us even more for our weakness at not being proud of who we are. Me, my family, my four sons, my husband all came back to Judaism. We are fiercely proud of being Jewish. Whether we are loved or hated more for this makes no difference to me at all. I know who I am and this gives me strength, courage and an inner fortitude these antisemitic weasels are scared of. It is our best offence against them

Cliff Alsberg
Cliff Alsberg
3 months ago

I’ve had the honor of meeting and knowing Rabbi Emanuel Feldman years ago and found myself in awe of his brilliance almost immediately. This letter of his proves it and says it all. Yes. Let’s stand for and always remain who and what we are, and let’s always continue down our sacred, Gd-given paths of growth. Yasher koach, Rabbi! 😃🇮🇱💕

vicky credi
vicky credi
3 months ago

Excellent article, I agree to it. We Jews were chosen to be different, that´s our task, our goal and everyone knows that, and our haters most of all. That´s one of the ways (albeit not a pleasant or nice one) that has helped the Jewish people to preserve and not to be lost through assimilation.
History has taught us that, in the rare periods when the nations of the world gave us equal rights and opportunities, assimilation soared.
I saw a beautiful clip of a tattoed young man, who is not observant, that these manifestations have given way to an awakening in him to look for his true identity and ask questions never considered until now.
Sad, frightening, but truth.

Deborah
Deborah
3 months ago

You had me until you directed your solution to men only and went to religion vs humanistic and holistic responses.

Last edited 3 months ago by Deborah
Nancy
Nancy
3 months ago
Reply to  Deborah

You're reading something that's not there. This isn't directed to men only; it's directed to Jews. Men wearing kippot was only one example given by the author.

rita daniela giupponi
rita daniela giupponi
3 months ago

Hi, I am not Jewish or Israeli, but an Italian Catholic lady. I got goosebumps reading this article. I am beyond outraged and devasted by what is happening. The outrage comes mostly about the world reaction AFTER October 7. I have never commented on IG , but now I feel compelled to support my Jewish brothers and sisters at least by letting them know that they have true friends in the world. I get hateful comments by people as they are particularly upset by a non Jew being a Jew friend. I can only suggest that you continue to be strong and compassionate. On my side I will try to do some more Tikkun Olam on your behalf. You are an amazing people

Melanie Gadsdon
Melanie Gadsdon
3 months ago

Thank you, you are very kind and I wish many more people are like you.

rita daniela giupponi
rita daniela giupponi
3 months ago

many like me, from people I never expected. yesterday I was having lunch with friends and they started asking why I wear a Star of David; after 20 minutes 10 people from other tables joined in the discussion and at the end everybody were cheering L'Chaim! (first I explained the meaning) it was a day worth living

Sue G
Sue G
3 months ago

Thank You

Julie
Julie
3 months ago

Thank you for caring. If only those that felt the same would let it be known then maybe those who care would over shadow the haters. Sadly my Jewish friends do not want to discuss what is happening (they did reach out to check on my family in Israel) yet my non Jewish friends are the ones reaching out to me, especially since my son, his wife and my grandchildren live in Israel.

Steve
Steve
2 months ago

YOU are an AMAZING LADY! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Jim DeFrancisco
Jim DeFrancisco
3 months ago

I am not Jewish but I love Jews and study with them regularly looking into aspects of Hebrew, Aramaic, Torah, and Kabbalah. One of the characteristics of Jews I know that impresses me most is their innate ability to ask questions and explore deeply their areas of interest. Quite honestly I have been disappointed with the fact that I have not seen many ask why anti-semitism is so prevalent in those who are expressing it today. And, I don't mean looking at this question from a standard defensive Jewish position but really getting into the mind and emotions of the non Jew who is "anti semitic." So, my personal belief, from the position of a gentile who loves Jews is to ask why.

Melanie Gadsdon
Melanie Gadsdon
3 months ago

Jim, it is a lame excuse to be anti-Semitic. Many people are anti semitic, unfortunately. I’ve had people hurl insults at me and I always have behaved kindly and charitable to many people. I do a lot of volunteering because it is a Mitzvah to do so.

Jim DeFrancisco
Jim DeFrancisco
3 months ago

But do you ask "why are you against Jews?" That is the point. There is no lame excuse involved in my post. Just ask and LISTEN!

Sylvie
Sylvie
3 months ago

Hard to pinpoint one source. Possibly with the early Christian church. The church leaders must have been enraged that the Jews (Hebrews) would not accept the new religion. Nor a human form of G-d. So they chose to blame, accuse and finally persecute Jews. As a minority, we were always vulnerable. Easy targets. We became the eternal scapegoat. And humans seem to need such vessels to dump their frustrations on. Being seen as 'different' or 'other' was also a key factor. We didn't eat or prepare food like the majority. We spoke another language between us. We dressed differently. These and other factors reinforced prejudices, mistrust even fear. Antisemitism is so deeply internalised within non Jewish cultures, it will probably never be eradicated. Best to maintain our identity proudly.

Jim DeFrancisco
Jim DeFrancisco
3 months ago
Reply to  Sylvie

I think you need to keep asking, seeking, and searching for the answer.

ADS
ADS
3 months ago

You are right on, Jim. You can never solve a problem unless you understand it, first. This problem is complicated by the fact that antisemitism takes many forms and there is no single answer to "why". There are different kinds of minds to get into.

As a course of action, then, Jews would do better to prioritize learning about others rather than walling themselves in with their own religion.

Jane
Jane
3 months ago

Being "more Jewish" is an admirable goal. But according to your definition, it omits half the Jewish population. Why are woman considered worthy of dying for Israel in the IDF, but yet not worthy of wearing tefillah? Why can women serve in the Knesset but yet not be called up to the bimah? This is why I am not Orthodox - I demand full rights as a Jew.

Yisroel Rabinowitz
Yisroel Rabinowitz
3 months ago
Reply to  Jane

I believe there are many great articles on aish.com that address exactly those questions. There are also many amazing people, both men and women, on the site and others that would be happy to address any and all questions and discuss each with your personally

Nancy
Nancy
3 months ago
Reply to  Jane

The author directed this to Jews, without defining them as male or female. He mentioned men wearing kippot - as one single example. You're looking for an argument that isn't there.

Barbara
Barbara
3 months ago
Reply to  Jane

Jane,
You're sadly mistaken about authentic, Torah-true Orthodox Judaism, in which women have a highly coveted role. I can't begin to expound on this in a limited space, but I'd like you consider the idea of "separate but equal": Our Creator had a purpose in making the two genders different, but neither one has the sort of supremacy you seem to imply!

E.g., are you aware that women don't need to don tefillin for tefillah because they have a direct "hotline" in communicating with God?
And they aren't bound by time-restricted mitzvot because they're busy with different kinds of important good deeds! There are so many facts that show how special we are, but I'll end with this: A Jew's very identity is determined solely by his/her matrilineal descent!

Please study reliable sources.

Lee-Ann
Lee-Ann
3 months ago

I'm an awakened secular Jew and I ordered a Star of David necklace last month (off Etsy, and the artist is Israeli) and wear it loud/proud out in public! Additionally, in public, I ensure I show my BEST self in the most kind, helpful, altruistic and smiling way so as not to give any negative "fuel" to someone's fire! Very intentional about my public presence and behavior as a form of "resistance"! Small gestures that we can ALL do collectively-before it's too late!

rita daniela giupponi
rita daniela giupponi
3 months ago
Reply to  Lee-Ann

Beautiful, I am also wearing Star of David and I am not a Jew

Melanie Gadsdon
Melanie Gadsdon
3 months ago

You are quite right. We should pull ourselves, unite and be together in the name of Judiasm and march on in the face of adversity. Wear Magen David and Yamulka with pride.

Fred Pra
Fred Pra
3 months ago

Lama Ragaschu Goim ?psalm 100 and 106 in Chichester Psalms,Leonard Bernstein.light a candle,so we can be brothers.

Mike Morgulis
Mike Morgulis
3 months ago

The day starts with Modeh Ani, a vow to use our soul properly. Judaism is about acts and restraints, dedication and resolve. Everything we do as Jews is an expression of Judaism and our values, morals and ethics. We have an obligation of tikkun olam. We cannot fix the entire globe, but we can tidy up our little corner of it with everything we do. Educate others, be the example that defies the media. Be Or L'goyim.

Esther
Esther
3 months ago

I can speak only for myself & can't comment on right or wrong of this, but I do know, that for me personally, the rise in antisemitism, has naturally drawn, or called me to be more jewish

Wendy
Wendy
3 months ago

I disagree. By becoming more observant, while it might make us feel emotionally better, only serves to show how different we are. It make put even a bigger target on our heads.

Nachum
Nachum
3 months ago
Reply to  Wendy

The target doesn't go away because one tries not to look different.

Tova Saul
Tova Saul
3 months ago
Reply to  Wendy

Well, hiding doesn't help, either.......

Beth
Beth
3 months ago
Reply to  Wendy

We aren’t different. I was born in Greece, adopted by American Jewish parents, who raised me to be a Jew and I’m very proud of that. My children went to Solomon Schechter K-8. I will never hid the fact that I am Jewish, for if I do those that hate me for believing in HaShem and supporting Israel win. “If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I’m not for others, who am I? And if not not when?” Rabbi Hillel

Shelly
Shelly
3 months ago
Reply to  Wendy

Wendy Wendy Wendy. You are very naive. Keep trying to blend into the crowd. But it won’t help. They will find you and expose you. You will always be a Jew to the Anti-Semites, no matter how hard you try to fit in. Stand proud! Don’t be a pathetic Jew!!!

Dvirah
Dvirah
3 months ago
Reply to  Wendy

By becoming more observant we fulfill the purpose for which we were chosen. See Mike Mogulis’s post: all the pieces add up to a godly life = a life worth living - and the world will feel that, even as they resist it.

Sue G
Sue G
3 months ago
Reply to  Wendy

So, what would you like us to do, hide? convert to Christianity? Do nothing and let the antisemitism keep rising to those who are proud to be a Jew?

it all sounds like the holocaust

Barbara
Barbara
3 months ago
Reply to  Sue G

Yes, except that in the Holocaust, "converted" Jews were slaughtered along with the rest, Hy"d. The Nazis, ym"s went beyond the halachic definition of Jewishness (matrilineal descent) and included those whose fathers, grandfathers & even great-grandfathers were Jewish, so thorough was their hatred.
But like enemies of the Jews throughout the ages, they did not succeed in destroying us because we're the eternal nation. Of course, it enrages them to hear this, but there's no doubt that they all get punished sooner or later (better the former, iy"H!)
No question that to merit Hashem's continued favor we need to be more -- not less ,cv"s -- observant of Judaism.

Bracha Goetz
Bracha Goetz
3 months ago

WONDERFUL!

Seppo Sinervä
Seppo Sinervä
3 months ago

The rabbi is right. In other words, let's be more obedient to G-d.

Morris Givner
Morris Givner
3 months ago

I disagree with the Rabbi. The history of the Holocaust taught me that we should clearly inform those who are antiSemitic and violent against Jews that they should expect to pay a heavy price.Jews will be well-armed and able defend themselves and reciprocate against any attack.We should also remind the World of the enormous contributions made by Jews for the past 4,000 years:science,medicine,arts,philosophy,law,politics,etc., which. have benefited the world.

Dvirah
Dvirah
3 months ago
Reply to  Morris Givner

Also - but none of that has meaning if we don’t live Jewish lives.

Nancy
Nancy
2 months ago
Reply to  Dvirah

Google the name Sam Levenson. He wrote an excellent essay on anti Semitism. He was a humorist as well as a teacher in the NYC Schools.

Eli
Eli
3 months ago
Reply to  Morris Givner

Hamas knew there would be serious consequences and they attacked anyway. It’s like the parable of the scorpion who stings the frog while crossing a river. The scorpion knows both of them will die but thinks it’s still worth it. Despite what Obama said about the mullahs in Iran, serious antisemites aren’t rational actors. Hitler’s decision at the end of the war to pull soldiers away from the Eastern front to kill more Jews fits into the same pattern. For the Amaleks of the world, self-interest is a secondary concern.

Barbara
Barbara
3 months ago
Reply to  Morris Givner

Reminders aren't necessary; they just add fuel to the fire of antisemitic jealousy.

And while it's sensible to be able to defend ourselves, that alone doesn't determine success since nothing happens in this world without God's will; therefore, it makes perfect sense for us to do His will!

Beth Gibson
Beth Gibson
3 months ago

My no 2 grandson, who is 13 and from an Orthodox family, pulled down his hoodie on October 8th. Rain or snow, his kippa will never be obscured again.

Gerard
Gerard
3 months ago

Well written Rabbi , well done.

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