40 Ways Life is Better at 40

Since turning 40, I’m a different person.
Ever since my 40th birthday last year, I’m different. I am calmer, I walk with a skip in my step, I smile more easily and more frequently. I wake up every day feeling the way I do after clearing a closet or organizing my junk drawer.
I think it’s because I have been doing a lot of emotional de-cluttering over the last few years. I am so much more in touch with where I am, what I have, and what I still need (and don’t need).
So after clearing out a lot of the emotional noise and mess, and in honor of my 41st birthday, here is a list of what I’ve learned and why life is better at 40.
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Every day is a gift
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A few good friends are better than many acquaintances
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Simple is better
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My life experiences trump my formal education
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I can laugh at my mistakes
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My relationships are stronger
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There is nothing like being in pajamas before dinner
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I know that God's plan for me is better than anything I can dream for myself
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I’ve found ways to make exercise fun – Spartan, Warrior Dash, Mud Hero
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Sleep is my friend
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Spending money on making memories is better than buying more stuff
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It’s easier to say No…but I say Yes more often
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I’m not afraid to challenge myself
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I know what I can control…and what I can’t
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Friends can become family
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A beautiful sunset can make my entire day
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I’m less self-conscious
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I am a kinder, more sympathetic person
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I love that my wardrobe is made up of a few pieces I don’t mind wearing over and over again
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I am better at telling the people in my life that I love and appreciate them
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I can stand up for myself
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Yummy take-out is better than going out to a fancy gourmet meal
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I’ve learned how to accept a compliment and learn from criticism
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I know when something is not my business
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I can admit when I’m wrong – usually
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Leaving a sink full of dishes for the morning is not the end of the world
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Sometimes taking a walk is better than taking a nap
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I’ve learned to let things go
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When you feel good about yourself others feel good when they’re with you
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Being jealous of someone else is stupid – I have what I need
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I’ve accepted that change is not always a bad thing
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I can choose my mood
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I’ve stopped trying to be like everyone else
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Having the house to myself is awesome
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Time moves faster – making the good times sweeter and the not so good easier
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I appreciate the little things
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It’s easier to ask for help
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I know who I am…and who I am not
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I am stronger – physically, emotionally, and spiritually
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The future is exciting