Throw Away the Xerox Machine

Teaching Children Responsibility

Bailing your child out of a difficult situation may not be doing him a favor at all.

The Committed Life

My first Sabbath taught me an important lesson about training the palate to enjoy the sweet flavor of success.

Life is for Love

Raising emotionally healthy children requires plenty of attention and affection. Easier said than done.

Six Habits of Happily Married Couples

Success in marriage hinges on consistent performance of these key habits.

Building Bridges of Love

The basic building block for marriage is love. The love you create will affect the health of your children, too.

Spice of Life

Children are as varied as we are. Appreciating their ness will add immeasurably to your pleasure -- and sanity.

Threats, Bribes, and Punishments

In trying to instill discipline, positive encouragement will get you a lot farther.

Is Your Spouse Driving You Crazy?

Figuring out your spouse's personality type will unlock beautiful new dimensions in marriage.

Here Comes the Bride, No Stress in Sight

Jewish traditions leading up to the wedding alleviate last-minute jitters.

Two Parents, One Voice

Presenting a united front and speaking to our children with one voice is essential for effective parenting.

5 Steps to a Great Marriage #5: Be Masters of Growth and Healing

A crucial task of marriage is to allow yourself to discover your weaknesses and take responsibility for working on and correcting them.

5 Steps to a Great Marriage #4: Be King and Queen

Your spouse is your number one priority. Becoming queen and king means creating an unshakable alliance between husband and wife.

Commitment: A Four Letter Word

Fear of commitment is epidemic. But you need to face that fear and conquer it.

Talking to Our Children About the Tragedies

Our children are looking to us for calm and compassion, faith and hope.

Five Steps to a Great Marriage #3: Be Like Builders

Staying married means sharing meaningful goals and values.

Parenting Teenagers: The Agony and the Ecstasy

Mature, childish. Detached, clingy. Selfish, caring. Respect us, scorn us. Stop the insanity! Some practical tips on raising teenagers.

5 Steps to a Great Marriage #2: Be a Team

Do you have the communication and negotiating skills needed to be a team?

Taking Charge: How To Discipline with Love

Too much permissiveness is a sure-fire way to raise spoiled, unruly children. But how to enforce the rules and still communicate unending love?

5 Steps to a Great Marriage #1: Be Friends and Lovers

5 practical tools on becoming "beloved friends."

Surviving a Long-Distance Relationship

Keeping a relationship alive across the miles is no easy task. These tips make the job more manageable.

The Mother Brigade

My mother led a one-woman solidarity mission to Israel to prop up the nation's economy and flagging spirits.

Hooray for Fighting!

Brawling comes with the territory of any real relationship. But prize fighters make arguing a way of coming closer together.

Jealousy_

Combating jealousy begins with the realization that God gives everyone just what exactly what he needs.

"The Surrendered Wife"?

I cringed at the title, but the book, "The Surrendered Wife," offers a surprising amount of wisdom.

In Dating Limbo

She wanted to make it official. He was hemming and hawing. And a promising relationship became overcooked.

Cultivating Kindness

Tools for inspiring our kids to stretch beyond their comfort zones and become givers.

Respecting Your Child's Emotional Reality

How to take your children's emotional reality seriously.

Just The Way You Are

Love is not a do-it-yourself project. So when looking for a spouse, pick one you can live with -- off-the-rack.

The Dangers of Criticism

There is a big difference between lashing out with insensitive criticism and admonishing with respect and love.

Reluctant Bride

On the verge of becoming a bride, one woman reflects on a harrowing emotional ride that began at age 12 when her parents divorced.

Just a Slight Adjustment of Focus

Raising happy children sometimes depends only on a kind word and a moment's extra attention.

The Three Most Important Words

And they're not "I love you."

The Not So Newlywed Game

Do you still remember why you married your spouse? Do you make an effort to keep the romance alive? Are you still cheering each other on?

Finding The One

How do I know if this is the person I want to be with for the rest of my life?

Mirroring Parents

What lessons are your kids picking up by watching your day-to-day behavior?

Who's Minding the Kids?

Our child's self concept is being built every day. Who's the primary person doing the imprinting?

Maximizing Dot-Com Dating

It's not just simply going online and meeting your soul mate. Here are a few important guidelines.

A Self Fulfilling Prophecy - Part 2 - Building Positive Self Esteem In Children

Parents are like a mirror, reflecting back their children's self-image. What your children see is what you'll get.

Dating Strategies for the Marriage-Minded

A relationships coach lays out his 5 golden rules for evaluating the prospects of long-term marital success.

Cliff's Ten Golden Rules

A Hollywood screenwriter lays out his checklist of "non-negotiables" for the serious dater.

It's Called "Commitment"

Today everything is disposable, from the trivial to the profound. It takes a dramatic shift to internalize the power of permanence.

Building Your Child's Positive Self-Image: Part 1

A down-to-earth Jewish primer on raising kids with healthy self-esteem.

Helping Children Cope With Difficulties

Failing a test, being unpopular, coping with divorce and worse. Children face many difficulties. What can we do to strengthen our children for life's challenges?

Show Me!

Yes it's romantic to sit and stare into each other's eyes. But talk won't build a marriage in the same way that action will.

Stopping Lashon Hara

A primer on how to raise our children to look at the positive and speak well about others.

Family Holiday Guides

Let Shrilly the Shofar take you and your family on a guided tour of the High Holidays, uncovering the deeper meanings of the most awesome days in the Jewish year!

Letting Go

When others have harmed our lives, it is easy to adopt an attitude of blame. We need to realize that the ultimate solution must come from inside of ourselves.

The Power of Reframing

Turning a negative into a positive is essential to strengthening a marriage.

Married (A Second Time) With Children

Forget the Brady Bunch. Here are six tools for coping with some of the challenges step-families present.

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