My Son's Bar Mitzvah

Dating Advice #27 - Is Kindness the Key?

When formulating a checklist of what to look for in a partner, is the one quality of "kindness" enough?

Circus, Circus

A visit to Las Vegas shows up the seductiveness of illusion, and reinforces that there is no place like home.

The Joys of A Large Family

"Didn't you ever hear of birth control?" There was no malice in her question. She simply couldn't understand the value of having a large family.

Faith vs. Law

It's the age-old dispute between Judaism and Christianity, what reigns supreme: Faith or Law? Judaism maintains that without the law, ethics and morality wither.

Dating Advice #24 - Professional Wife

Being married, and being a mother, are serious responsibilities. Is there room for a legal career as well?

The Problem of Raising Typical Kids

Parents of kids who fight, forget their bathing suit and crumple their schoolwork sometimes need to be reminded that their kids are "normal."

Dating Advice #23 - Permanent Attachment

Commitment is one thing. But does marriage mean being together 24/7?

The Restorative Power of Kindness

We read inspirational books to reassure ourselves that kind and caring people still exist. Yet, so easily, we could be one of them.

Dating Advice #21 - Transition Time

She's recently divorced, but is eager to start dating. Should she jump in? Or is there another step that comes first?

Dating Advice #20 - Conversational Concerns

Some people have a way with words, and others... have no way. Here's how to have a great date either way!

The Winning Team

Little league has a bad rap -- frustrated coaches, over-invested parents and damaged kids -- but it is possible for it to generate a healthy Jewish experience.

Dating Maze #19 - Coming Across Cold

On paper, she seems like the ideal date. But she never gets asked out again. Is there some icy chill in her demeanor?

Independence Day

A child's first driving lesson sends her mother into a panic.

Summer In the City

Call me Scrooge. Call me the Grinch. I hate (or rather, as we say around our house, I'm not fond of) the summer.

Dating Advice #18 - Will He Commit?

He has a bad track record. She wants a commitment. Should she hang in there, or is she wasting her time?

Sundays!!

I don't know about you, but keeping my kids happy on Sundays is a major challenge.

Infidelity and Forgiveness

A woman came to me in deep despair, asking a very difficult question: "My husband had an affair with another woman. How can I ever forgive him and trust again?"

Material Girl

I was flipping through one of those women's magazines that no one ever admits to reading when an ad caught my eye.

Phases of Freedom

Freedom from is not enough. It must be followed by freedom to.

Dr. Mitzvah - Subway Scramble

A Nest of Trouble! Flying feathers and flying tempers and much ado about cockledoodledoo.

Two and One-Half Hours a Day

Carpooling may be a nuisance, but it shows your children you truly care about their education.

Who Comes First -- Your Spouse or Your Children?

Children will go on to forge lives of their own, but the relationship with your spouse is forever. It fosters growth like no other relationship can.

Counting Every Moment

Every moment of life is a gift, but too many of us are bogged down by what was or what will be and fail to keep the present in focus.

Facing the World: A Daughter's Relection

As she crosses the threshold from her teens into adulthood, a young woman takes stock of who she has to thank for her confidence and love of life.

Letting Go: Notes From a Mother

As a teenage daughter leaves home, one mother panics, takes stock and lets go.

Dating Advice #17 - Bridging The Gap

Between the age difference, cultural difference, educational backgrounds, and geographic distance -- can they make it work?

Dating Advice #16 - Finding The Right Pace

He wants to talk, she wants a break. He feels put off, she feels choked. How will our experts sort this one out?

Dating Advice #14 - Intermarriage Issues

Oh, no. The folks are hassling her again. What's the big deal about finding a Jewish partner anyway?!

Dating Advice #13 - Too Close Too Fast?

He wants to make her the focus of his every waking moment. She wants to let things develop over time. Which is the right way?

Personal Liberation

The tyranny of our personal "pharaohs" keeps us enslaved. The preparations for Passover give us a glimpse of freedom and the greatness of our potential

Dating Advice #12 - Financial Decisions

"I like him, but does he know how to manage his money? And will I get stuck holding the bag?" Our advice team gives the word.

A Weighty Issue

An obsession with dieting is not a Torah value, but neither is preoccupation with food. The challenge is striking a balance in today's fat-conscious world.

Dating Advice #11 - How Deep Is Your Love

You've popped the question, she said "yes." Okay, now what?

Shop 'Til You Drop

What is it with adolescent girls and shopping? One mother's battle for perspective.

Dating Advice #10 - Telephone Blues

If the answering machine doesn't pick up, it's time to get the message: Trying to build a relationship on the phone may be too much of a barrier.

The Joys (?) of Passover Cleaning

It is possible not only to enjoy Passover cleaning, but to find it to be the most meaningful aspect of holiday preparation.

Dating Advice #9 - On the Rebound

After a tough break-up, how do we heal ourselves, pick up the pieces, and move on to the next, productive stage of life?

No Ordinary Dinner

Meeting a real Jewish hero reminds us that we all have the power to make our dreams a reality - and the world a better place.

Dating Advice # 8 - Platonic Platitudes

Opposite-gender relationships with a confidential, vulnerable component are not a good idea -- when they compete with a marriage.

Blessed be God ... Who Didn't Make Me a Man

Jewish feminism doesn't mean wanting to be a man. It means thanking God for creating you perfectly female.

A Woman For All Seasons

When the focus changes from self-growth to diapers and dishes, a woman's relationship with God is bound to need some adjusting.

Dating Advice: #7 - No Ring? No Way!

She told her boyfriend no way when he wanted to "try" living together, but now she misses him. Did she do the right thing?

Quality Time

Quality time is a myth. Yes it sometimes happens, but scheduling it is impossible.

Dating Advice #6 - Coming Attractions?

Our experts answer: Is he Mr. Right if I don't feel attracted at first sight? And what happens when two quiet types go out on a date?

The Legacy of Mrs. Cash

An old woman who took advantage of every opportunity to compliment and affirm others, leaves behind a powerful lesson.

The Nice German

At the German consulate with my father, a Holocaust survivor.

 

The Shidduch System

It works.

Dating maze #281 - Negative Father Image

She never respected her father, and now has trouble respecting all men. Help!

 

Butternut Squash Soup

Jamie Geller makes a light and fragrant butternut squash soup that can be prepped and served in under 1 hour, sponsored by Hagafen Cellars.

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